WHY THE SPOLARIUM?

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 Recently, two precious souls marked a significant milestone as they publicly professed their love for each other, capping off an eleven-year journey.

Their story began in sorrow. The loss of a beloved family member brought them together, forcing them to navigate deep grief at a young age when they could have used a pillar of support. Yet, in the midst of heartbreak, they found solace in each other’s friendship.

Beyond their emotional bond, they became each other's anchor through rigorous academic pursuits. As scholars at two of the country's most prestigious institutions, they weathered intense pressure to graduate with highest honors—a Magna Cum Laude from the University of the Philippines-Diliman and a Cum Laude from Ateneo de Manila University.

Distance and time only tested their resolve. First came the isolation of the COVID-19 pandemic, followed by a long-distance relationship when one left to pursue graduate studies on a scholarship in the US. Connected by digital technology, the distance proved that absence indeed makes the heart grow fonder, deepening their realization of just how essential they were to one another.

Then came the brave decision to seal their commitment. Honor and respect guided their steps. Before proposing, permission was sought from family—a careful journey, but a meaningful one.

On July 24, 2026, the moment arrived. Inside the National Museum of Fine Arts, surrounded by strangers and standing before Juan Luna’s iconic Spoliarium, a profession of love took place.

Why the Spoliarium?

Knowing that these two brilliant minds act with intention, I began to reflect. As a Social Science teacher, I know the Spoliarium holds profound historic significance. It represents the suffering of an oppressed nation, but also awakening and inspiration—capturing a moral reality that famously inspired José Rizal and fueled Filipino nationalism.

Yet, those historical layers didn't fully explain its presence in their story. I had to dig into its personal symbolism.

Beyond its political imagery, the Spoliarium speaks to core human values: resilience, endurance under intense societal pressure, and overcoming loss. This resonated instantly. Both Gabby and Dorothy have lived those values. They faced academic and personal pressures, exceeding expectations at every turn.

Ultimately, the masterpiece signifies drive, motivation, and the strength to endure life's battles. What better backdrop to begin a new chapter than a symbol of survival and purpose?

Above all else, as a parent, my most ardent prayer is that they put Christ at the center of their lives as they wage every battle ahead. Just as the Spoliarium signifies enduring strength through struggle, I pray they will overcome every obstacle together—anchored in faith and keeping their love strong forever.

God bless you, Gabby and Dorothy!

hbA/08.01.26

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